I have sometimes regretted sending some mails. Happens especially when I am sending it to a friend when our relations are in a very delicate stage. May be because I am angry or upset over something. During those times, any wrong words I use, might potentially communicates a wrong message which I might not intend at all in the first place.
For quite some years now I have adopted a strategy to prevent that from happening. If I ever had to send such a mail to someone, I compose the mail and save as draft at night and wait till the next day morning to send it. My subconscious mind thinks about it and helps me decide if I should really send that mail or not. During that gap either my anger comes down or I will be in a position to comprehend the situation more clearly. In quite a few cases, I have discarded that mail and in some cases I have changed certain words and sent it.
Thanks to Google for coming up with this Mail Goggle. Read more to find yourself what it does. I guess that small amount of time we spend before sending mails helps to save relations.
Action of the brain, whether conscious or unconscious. My blogs do not necessarily have a theme or a focus. They are here, because I felt like putting it here. They could be something which I am thinking about, something which I want to talk to someone about, something which I am working on or want to share. In short they are my feelings, opinions, work and good things I want to share.
Friday, October 31, 2008
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